#LEARNING TO FAIL
Learn to fail
Trial + error - fear = perfect learning
Experiencing anything without fear of being wrong is the way forward in what we do but above all, and most importantly, lose the fear of failure, to be continuously disappointed by the results or to which they will say.
Life is a continuous challenge, a continuous choice that we must make and it is the decisions we are making that allow us to grow and enter situations that we did not expect and that are the ones that put us to the test to give the maximum of ourselves.
When in society we are asked to do the opposite, to have quick results and not to be mistaken, to approach ourselves to be perfect, to have an artificial image or an immaculate curriculum, we see that there is something that does not just add up. The same happens when we demand too much in a relationship, or create an image that does not allow us to relax and be who we are. That is when we lose our essence, which makes us human, unique and authentic.
When we identify that individuality - what makes us unique and different - only with a mental image of ourselves, with our psychological or physical character, we see that it says very little about us and that, in reality, none of that makes us perfect.
And when we go into all these concepts we see that they are unreal and what, moreover, does not allow us to accept ourselves totally, in a fallible and vulnerable way. That acceptance includes all those ups and downs of life, pain and being able to feel lost or disoriented.
It is also to accept that others do not want us or understand us, that they do not like us or see us strange. We are all an expression of the diversity, multiplicity and richness of life, but there are always people who resist a lifetime of it.
These apparent oddities that we can see as obstacles to that image we are looking for, are actually perfect in their expression and make us unique and different and fun. Accepting yourself and not expecting anything from anyone is an incredible rest.
See also how that acceptance manifests when we interact with anyone is to breathe, sigh from the inside and at the same time oxygenate any stress or conflict situation.
Observing the apparent defects or faults in someone is something very nice, and seeing that she or he is really the same as you, with their different features but without being less or more, without expecting to change anything and at the same time not pretending to be another person .
There are no mistakes in our nature. What has created us knows each of the hairs we have in the head. He has created us exactly like that and loves us unconditionally as we are. That means he really loves us.
So, we just have to be ourselves.
Being yourself does not have to be easy because of the masks we have superimposed on who we really are. Knowing this, we only have to try, make mistakes and enjoy learning, in this way we openly know each other in that part that does not judge, criticize or separate.
To flow with life is to move without fear with that apparent limitation, but above all, begin to fall in love with our failures, see them come forward and watch them carefully to see what are expressions that make us human and bring us closer to others. They lead us to learn openly about everything. A good symptom of this perfect learning is when we laugh more at ourselves, and after all when we relativize things more and allow ourselves to enjoy more of everything.
So, we just have to be ourselves.
Being yourself does not have to be easy because of the masks we have superimposed on who we really are. Knowing this, we only have to try, make mistakes and enjoy learning, in this way we openly know each other in that part that does not judge, criticize or separate.
To flow with life is to move without fear with that apparent limitation, but above all, begin to fall in love with our failures, see them come forward and watch them carefully to see what are expressions that make us human and bring us closer to others. They lead us to learn openly about everything. A good symptom of this perfect learning is when we laugh more at ourselves, and after all when we relativize things more and allow ourselves to enjoy more of everything.
